My guidance for a life well-lived.
I hope it resonates.
A process to shift out of negative emotion
You know what a negative emotion feels like. It feels bad. And it shows up for many different reasons. The reason is not the issue. The issue is, how can you feel better and get yourself out of it.
The Law of Attraction reminder
Life is full of contrast. And this is a good thing! Because as soon as you’re aware of what you don’t want, you can clarify what you DO want!
Are you in a comfort zone?
Do you lean into the edge of discomfort? Even before you do, what comes up for you? Fear of the unknown, fear of being seen, fear of being uncomfortable?
What would love do?
We can remain in a state of love when we recognize that everyone is doing the best they can to get their needs met. –Eckhart Tolle
Why it's hard to be human sometimes
I’ve recently noticed through some experiences, that I have a mean streak.
Turn your intentions into expectations!
When I say, I expect… (what it is I desire), it’s like a full bodied disclaimer.
Is this relationship right for you?
If you’ve ever wondered, should I stay or should I go, you’re not alone.
Conflict and repair process
Often the dynamic is a pursuer vs distancer. One needs more and one shuts down. So frustrating, I know!
Cycles, boundaries and losing strategies
Ok, so you accept that as humans, we will have conflicts. There’s nothing wrong with you. Each one of us has unique triggers and as much as I’d love to say you can heal them, I’m not sure that’s true.
Understanding conflict
This inSight is based on Terry Real’s work on conflict. The challenge in conflict resolution is that we must get out of our adaptive child brain and into our adult (prefrontal cortex) brain.
Experiencing a broken connection?
When I experience a broken connection it affects my heart at a deep level. I’m not as light, happy or excited about anything.
Some last thoughts for 2023
May the end of this year bring new dreams and desires to the one ahead. Cheers to you as we embark on another chapter of our journey.
A morning ritual to begin your day peaceful
In the hustle and bustle of the season, I thought this might be a helpful inSight to bring a little 'literal' peace to your heart (if you do it)!
The power of beliefs
The thing with beliefs is, just because you have them, doesn’t mean you’re right.
Boundaries, requests and control
You are responsible for your own domain and you have the right to it.
What to do when you’re triggered
The thing about learning and growing is it can take time to apply it properly without being uncomfortable or defensive.
Some ways to live in love
Living in love sounds easy, and I have to tell you, from my experience, it ain’t always so!
The 3 dimensions of reality
As we expand our consciousness, we open up to our infinite potential. Think of it as a process/journey of your soul.
What is alignment?
What is alignment? It’s the sum of your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well being.