My guidance for a life well-lived.
I hope it resonates.
Infidelity is a choice
Betrayal. This is a touchy topic. It happens. I wish it never happened or would never happen again.
Get curious to why this experience is happening
This choice is less about what you do about the relationship. It’s more about you personally.
Stay in a mediocre and dissatisfying partnership
If you chose this option, great! This is your body's way of conserving energy. And, here’s the warning - it can get worse.
Self inquiry - how well do you know yourself?
If you don’t know and acknowledge your true self you won’t be able to show up fully as the amazing person you are.
Has a bad experience changed you?
To say that a bad experience changes you would be pretty accurate. I just want us all to learn from it, not let it take you down.
Reflection, reflection, reflection
I’m so often learning about what other people know, that I need time like this to sort out what I know.
Why we have challenges
It’s understanding that what’s showing up in our life (and not working), is simply an indicator of where there’s some pain.
Everything is in flux
I remember loving and relating to Ellie Goulding’s song, Flux. I think I loved the word. Flux. A time of confusion. The word is defined as continuous change.
Near death experiences
I've researched near death experiences (NDE’s). There was nothing else that got me close to what happens when we die. So I listened to other people’s experiences.
Does learning ever confuse you?
I am confused right now. With so much great information out there, I am caught between 2 theories.
Sexual Evolution: 5 erotic blueprints
If you’ve never heard of this, I’m so happy to be the one to bring this into your awareness! This, from the amazing, well informed and experienced sex educator, Miss Jaiya. (You may have enjoyed the Netflix show - Sex, Love & Goop).
The 5 Love Languages: How to love and be loved better
Here’s the thing - in romantic relationships, it’s not “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
From knowing it to experiencing it!
Here’s what I see as the biggest block to not having life look like you think it should.