Here’s where we now choose to be honest and choose to show up as we are. Not perfect. Completely imperfect.

What TRULY lies beneath your surface?

I think by now you know how passionate I am about you being in charge of YOU. The fact is, other people affect us, and you affect others. You walk into a room of 100 people and get 100 different perceptions of who they think you are (without much information). 

Since we are all wired for connection and belonging we naturally want people to like us. We also know, not everyone will. Just like you will connect with some, but not others. 

Do you do what you say you’re going to do? How do you feel when you disappoint someone?

Have you ever had someone tell you that they would show up, and never did? How did that feel?

This is integrity. And how you treat others is what you can expect back.

I know for me, this is a super important value, so I am not only sensitive when people don’t live up to my standard, but I also have to allow others to be what they are without judgement.

I think all you can do is have the conversation.