My guidance for a life well-lived.
I hope it resonates.
Our need for authenticity and attachment - Part One
Gabor’s question is, how can we be interrelated, connected and still be ourselves? Your authenticity will be sacrificed every time so you’ll be accepted. (This is what you did for survival, and leads to adaptation of the true self). You ‘adapt’ to fit in.
Do you have to be vulnerable?
This has been the most challenging skill for me. It’s because our basic human instinct needs belonging and connection. What if me being me makes me unlovable?