You rarely lose, you often gain

In the game of life, naturally you want to win. 

You know how that feels. But I swear you learn more, grow more and evolve more in the losses than the gains (ok maybe not in the stock market 😓).

How do you handle your losses? This is all about character. Do you reflect and look at where you may have got it wrong? Do you add clarity to your list now that you’ve learned what you don’t want? Do you blame others? Do you feel sorry for yourself and spiral a while? 

Either way, you do get up and get back into the ring. This is how life works.

It’s so important to celebrate your wins - you’ve earned them all. And when you lose, try to be grateful for the take-a-ways. That way the particular challenge doesn’t need to freak you out or show up again. If it does, you just didn’t learn the lesson. No big deal. It’ll always come back around. Maybe in a different face or place, but you’ll know you’ve been there before. 

After a while, you’ll find your gains far outweigh the losses. So are they really all that bad? 

That’s a wrap! Hope you are enjoying your summer! Thanks for being with me. 😘

Sending love,

Kristi 💞

Life Coach & Mentor