What women crave
Hello sweetheart!
Of course I couldn’t do an inSight on what men crave without continuing on about what women crave!
This is my own personal reflection on what I’ve learned about myself over the years of my romantic life. It has required the help of many special men who have taught me what I now need in order to have a truly connected, deep and loving relationship.
You may look at this as a wish list, but I’m here to tell you it exists. But it requires openness and skill. Some have it, others don’t. But if you wish to aspire to it, I’m here to tell you that you are in for some fun in your near future! A woman that can surrender definitely has a good man beside her.
As with all topics I share with you, to reap the rewards, it requires commitment, consistency and communication.
Adore us. See us as no one really has. Compliment us.
Be present. No phones, distractions. Often.
Have her be the first thing you touch in the morning. Acknowledge her.
Ask us what we need help with. Be our hero.
Do what you say you’re going to do. Or just don’t say it.
Protect us. Walk closest to the traffic. Open our doors. Make it safe for us to be vulnerable and hold the space for our crazy.
Make love to us, not just have sex. Eye contact, nice lighting, a massage, some music. We need at least 20 mins of warm up (foreplay) compared to you.
Kiss us passionately without it needing to lead to sex. It’s ok if it does though!
Reassure us. Remind us that you still choose us and tell us why.
Take the lead. Plan the date. Don’t ask us, just do it! Bonus points if all you tell her is what time to be ready and what might be appropriate to wear.
DON’T let us control you. We will try. Have a backbone. Don’t be a wimp. We want a partner, not a child. Respect yourself and we will too.
