What men crave
Well hello there,
Who would I be if I didn't share the great wisdom I learn from my teachers with you?
A while back I watched a video and took rough notes from John Wineland, where he did a ‘Plea to Women’ from men. He works with men on intimacy, embodiment and purpose.
I’ve learned a lot from John. My prayer is that men will also. 😉
Please forward this to anyone you know that might be interested in understanding men better.
My hope for everyone is to have great love in their lives. Great love happens when we want the same things, understand ourselves, each other and apply the skills on relating. (Remember, knowing this is not enough. It has to be applied).
And please let me know if you agree with John! From my personal experience I can say these ideas are sound. Of course everyone is unique, but I thought he did a good job of summarizing insightful information about some wonderful men in the world and what they want women to know about them.
Please use this information with love and not manipulation.
Celebrate that men are different. They want less, women want more. Figure out what they need before you give them what you want to give.
Men crave range (especially in bed). The goddess, the whore, the good girl.
Try to separate your tools of succeeding in business with the relationship. They want more of your vulnerability, pain, fear, heartache. They want to be your hero. Show how painful it is when they don’t show up for you. The trick is to not disconnect from your heart when explaining this to them. Let them feel how much you want their love.
Find something in us that you can trust everyday. Always surrender. Your heart, life, body. Be courageous and bold. (This they respect and get turned on by).
Be open and move your body. Slow down. Feel the universe through your body. It’s nourishing to them.
Don’t settle for our bullshit. Love us just as strong as when you’re mad. Bring enthusiasm. Train us.
Men want to love you well.
