Wanted: Your opinion on loves many challenges
Hello there amazing friend!
I need your help.
I know you have good opinions. They’re all interesting and valid. Your life has given you unique perspectives and I’d love to hear from you!
Whether you are single, dating or in a committed relationship, could you please provide your perspective on these questions for me? (You can use a past experience if not applicable today):
What do you find most challenging about your love life?
If you would commit to making one change that would positively improve the quality of your love life, what would it be?
If ‘your person’ would commit to making one change that would positively improve the quality of your relationship, what would it be?
Why do I ask?
Because, on the path of living my best life, and closely witnessing the paths of others, I see how often we have to deal with relationship stuff.
I’d like for us to open up together, and share what’s going on for us. I’d love to learn about what you’re experiencing (or have experienced) in your challenges with love.
Another reason I’m curious about what you think is because I will share (anonymously) the results with you and maybe it'll help us all feel better, knowing we aren’t alone or bad at the game of love. To verify with evidence that we all have work to do.
Here are my answers:
Knowing what I can live with and what I won’t live without. (And I want a lot).
Being open with kindness when I have an issue, instead of complaining (which puts him on the defensive and he shuts down).
More affection. Physical touch is my #1 love language afterall!