We have so many circuits running through our body: love, fear, panic, grief, lust, exploration, anger. It’s necessary and is our authentic nature. We will have a healthy response unless we’re not accepted.

Gabor’s question is, how can we be interrelated, connected and still be ourselves? Your authenticity will be sacrificed every time so you’ll be accepted. (This is what you did for survival, and leads to adaptation of the true self). You ‘adapt’ to fit in.