Do you have patience?
In a world where there is so much information on being ‘happy and positive’ - we also need to honor where we’re at. When I want something a LOT and it hasn’t shown up yet… I can get irritated. I’m sure you’ve felt this way before.
But alas - there are ways to make this easier! 💃
I say ‘know what you want’ because it’s important and where I find many people struggle. It’s important so you know what direction you want to head in. It also creates excitement in life when you are wanting. (Honestly sometimes more fun is the wanting than the receiving - crazy, but it’s happened to me!)
It takes time to get what we want, but we still need to enjoy the process.
So let’s say you want ______. I’ll use a ‘perfect partner’ for my example. (Knowing there is no such thing as perfect though right?)
Daydream and get specific about what it will FEEL like and BE like:
Feel like: Great conversations that connect, amazing intimacy, snuggles by firelight, comfort just being by their side, safe yet adventurous.
Be like: integral, honest, open, growth, great eye contact, sexual, commited, great conversation.
Make sure you are at the same level and can be what you are asking for (like attracts like)
Get ready - gain new skills, get yourself out there, attend parties, go online, be available!
Listen to your intuition. What may have worked for you before may change. Always follow your guidance. It’s helping you to get what you want. (It may not always make sense). Follow it anyway!
Regardless of what you want in your life, it will take some time to see the result. Don’t give up. If you say it won’t work, it won’t.
BELIEVE.
Plus it feels much better to want and believe you can, than to want and believe you can’t.
You are in charge of this. No one else is guiding your beliefs but you. Be aware and conscious. Fix the thought if you need to and then repeat the thoughts that feel best.
And just like a GPS - you input your destination. If you make a ‘wrong’ turn - it WILL take longer - BUT - you’ll always get back on track!
Relax, be easy on you. You WILL get what you want. And send me a line when you do! 🙌
I’m cheering you on!
PS. I have been so patient, I did finally get my ‘perfect partner.’
Love your friend,
Kristi 💘
Life Coach & Mentor
