When your behaviour isn’t good, you're asleep.

“I may not be the way you want me to be, but I am the way I want to be.”

I listened to a talk from Sadhguru. And I resonated with what he said:

Life is precious. Your life is your responsibility. ‘Not knowing’ is a great possibility. Now you become a seeker to know.

I think by now you know how passionate I am about you being in charge of YOU. The fact is, other people affect us, and you affect others. You walk into a room of 100 people and get 100 different perceptions of who they think you are (without much information). 

Since we are all wired for connection and belonging we naturally want people to like us. We also know, not everyone will. Just like you will connect with some, but not others.