Hey there sweet friend,
You know a lot of things. You’ve had enough life experience to have well reasoned opinions, preferences and wisdom.
Here’s what I see as the biggest block to not having life look like you think it should. You know it, but you still need to apply it. (Sometimes we need a little more than reiki and yoga to fix these ones).
Do you know what it takes to have a kind loving passionate relationship? So why don’t you have one? Are you working towards one? You know life is better when shared.
Do you know what it takes to have a healthy body? (Minus serious illness here). So are you active, get outdoors, sleep well, eat well enough and feel peaceful at least once each day? If not, why not? You know you’ll live longer and be able to do more.
Do you know how to handle your finances, stay within your means and not carry huge debt which causes a lot of stress? You know how much easier it is to be happy when you don’t have money issues.
Do you enjoy your work? Do you know you can do anything you want these days? So what are you doing about it? You know other people who are either grateful for their paycheck or getting paid to do what they love.
You see, these are all just skills. Maybe you were taught them, maybe you weren’t. But your problems are yours to solve. No one will be coming to save you. This took me a long time to get. To take my life into my own hands and do what I needed to do. And still do.
I’m not saying to change your personality. I still take my time getting things done. Some would do things much faster than I ever would.
So many people ‘know.’
I’m serious. Listen to people talk. They know and yet their problem lingers on, sometimes for years.
I’ve also found the genre of your challenge might be the same. But there should be evolution where you’re learning new things, not always the same things. For example - for me, love has been challenging. But in each new phase or partner I realize I have more work to do. I can appreciate my man no problem, but I don’t give my attention to him as much as I could. Or years ago I wouldn't ask for what I wanted, yet I gave what he wanted. Today, oh I ask! Hahaha.
You gettin’ what I’m rollin’ here bud?
I knew you would.
To summarize - Once you know it, apply it - then you can experience it. Problem solved. Rinse and repeat.
Oh, and there is nothing wrong with you. We all have problems. I was just curious what you were doing about them?
All my love,
K 💛
